When it comes to girls, you have two sides of the spectrum.
On one side you have girls who will be there for you no matter what and to top it off, have something going for them (i.e. school or job)
The other side is girls who take your kindness the wrong way and believe that you want to go with them.
In the past few days, I’ve managed to be on both sides.
Monday was supposed to be the day in which the girl who I met down at the Conference USA tournament in March was going to head to the Starbucks on Poplar Avenue near my house and talk for a brief spell.
That is, until I headed back in the direction towards home and received a text message in which I found out that she was in a minor accident and couldn’t make it.
While this was going on, on the other end of the spectrum, a girl that I started talking to in April began to take what I had thought was a good friendship to a different level when she began to call me a lot and wondering why I hadn’t returned her phone calls while I was on the other end talking to my wayward cousins in Milwaukee.
Instead of what seemed to be what I thought on my behalf a friendship, turned out to be in her mind to be a relationship.
A one-sided relationship.
While with the girl that I talked to back in March knew for a fact that we were friends like myself, the girl I started talking to in April wasn’t seeing it that way.
And after telling me her sad story, which it was indeed, calling my phone at all times of the night while I was sleep, I finally decided to the next best thing to keep my sanity which was to get rid of her and move on with my life.
Obviously, after doing that, and remembering what I said to a friend back in March, I believe wholeheartedly I’m going to be single for a while.
That is, until the right one finally does come my way.
